2021.10.23 17:43 jenmarpea Snicker is picking out her halloween costume… prisoner or spider.. loooll
2021.10.23 17:43 After-Two-2713 Am I stupid or.....WTH AM I SUPPOSED TO DO HERE
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2021.10.23 17:43 peete_911 Advice? Is it me?
My current gf of 10 years (30f) and I (30m) share a beautiful 2 yr old daughter.
For most of our relationship it was good. I always had a hard time being romantic and emotional but she always accepted me and never really had issue with this until we had our daughter. We lived together in the tiniest room apartment for 3-4 years before I bought a house 4 years ago & never use to fight. covid has forced us to wfh with the baby and a dog and 2 cats and it's caused us to resent each other to the point we went to therapy and at first I resisted but I came to learn alot. Most importantly was the fact that neither of us did anything wrong and our issues were just normal lashing out and discomfort due to the hand we both were dealt. I learned that I had to help more around the house and try to be more intimate but the therapist said she shouldn't Continue saying hurtful emasculating things and due to my childhood that my intimacy may take time. (This isn't sexual Intimacy more like the general compliments and kisses and hugs throughout a day)
We got to a good point and then it started up again. Fighting because I worked so much (9-5 during day while she did 9-2 3 days a week and 9-5 the rest) I also work a night job bc our bills and debts are high and I work my day job. in Finance which is very demanding while she sourced products for her company which was much more laid back. However I was always attacked for times when I was on calls or meetings or working on something and she wanted me to put the baby down or feed the baby or clean something. I offered to have her quit bc my job paid more -nope not an option. I made an effort to try to clean or do something around the house when I had a break or down time & before my shifts at night. That never was appreciated and I was always told it's my house/child too. This continued for months.
I became depressed & fell back into a nasty old addiction I had for about 1-3 weeks. I came forward about it and got clean. Felt bad and like a failure so I went back to it and tried to continue my jobs described above for awhile. Then the complaints started again-Now I was being asked for another dog bc it would help our current dog play more outside and she wouldn't have to always bring our dog out and walk it and give it so much attention. I sympathized bc the baby but resisted bc it wasn't going to make things easier as we still had to walk the dogs and feed them and clean them and pay for checkups etc but since she paid for adoption fee etc - I agreed.
Days later fights began again - this time I was being emotionally abusive and because I work so much I was a bad father and neglected the family? I couldn't believe what I was hearing. I got loud and definitely would weigh pro and cons aloud about anything we spoke about but bc I mentioned that I make more or workmore or complained about house being messy when I got home etc I guess that meant I was emotionally abusing her. I just am trying to make the house a better place for us and our daughter. How did woman raise families of 4 kids and keep a place spotless and work in the past but this is so hard?
I honestly could not handle it any more. These fights always seemed to be after baby was asleep and she had a little to drink too so I began sleeping on the couch when I got home a few nights ago and now she's threating me to leave.
Alot was said the last couple nights that have made me dark inside. I worry about my daughter. I know since she's the mom they will give her custody. Also growing up I always told myself I wouldn't never want to separate parents from my kid. I just feel like a failure. I also know the apt she is now going to live in will be small has no yard and we need to split the whole house and pets up and it kills me.
I just don't understand how someone can be one way FOR YEARS and then change to complete opposite. Has anyone had similar experience and come out the other side? Any advice? Also Ami really emotionally abusive or is she just being a covert narcissist?
I'm not perfect as I have always said and explained above but I just don't understand how any of this is me.
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2021.10.23 17:43 WrapWild3042 Always late
Hey guys I've been losing shitloads of money, My problem is I'm Always in to late as soon as I get in seems like the stocks always drops 😂 So need honest replies in your opinions is it to late to get in Mark? The premarket also fucks me sometimes cause I don't have opportunity to buy then :(
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2021.10.23 17:43 Big_Construction_875 am hungry and need a little bit of money for some food
2021.10.23 17:43 NormalCelery388 Can someone rate my two main teams?
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2021.10.23 17:43 1v4NA Looking for teammates, currently gold was conqueror many times though. Haven’t played much since season 6, but I play tpp squads now
2021.10.23 17:43 svanapps Fear of the unknown: A tale of the SEC’s crusade against synthetics
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2021.10.23 17:43 Randevizous Our life is bad enough already. I want to put a smile on your face I like it. Maybe it will make you smile too.
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2021.10.23 17:43 Straw-MangoSmoothie Has anyone taken a class with Thach Ho?
2021.10.23 17:43 ADD-DDS Can someone ELI5 proton staking and voting?
2021.10.23 17:43 sneakyff [US-CA] [H] Think6.5 v2 Black/PC bottom, Built D65, cheap Artisans [W] PayPal, Trades
D65 Lazy Sound Test
Hi all, few things up for sale today. All prices include conus shipping with insurance and all items listed are in perfect working condition unless otherwise stated or shown.
I am still looking for a 2u Brass Badge for the Think v2 in trade or outright purchase.
|Think6.5 V2 2U - New - Just swapped for my personal top/bottom choice.||Black Top / Red Badge / Frosted PC Bottom / Black Weight. Gaskets installed.||As bought from Graystudio - 1x PCB 1x FR4 Plate (Black), Plate/Case Foam. $525|
|KBDfans D65 - Ignore the fingerprints on the weight :(||Smoked Polycarbonate Case / Polycarbonate Plate / All Poron foam kit / Tuned Durock v2 smoky stabs / KBDfans poron switch pads / Lubed Gateron Box Ink v2.||As listed - $375 Costs $339.99 for this kit, pre shipping, tax, switches, stabs and other mods make this a crazy good value.|
|Artisans||$20 ea or $32 for both|
2021.10.23 17:43 PorridgeCranium2 Top mind gets straight to the point [Link in captions]
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2021.10.23 17:43 gabbor2030 Cant order my stuff from taobao
2021.10.23 17:43 auntzelda666 Elle’s Seasonal Buildings not customizable on Wilderness Farm. Hmm.
Hi! I thought I had this mod thing figured out…
Elle’s Seasonal Buildings works perfect on my two other saves: Forest Farm and the Regular Farm. However, on the Wilderness Farm I am not able to customize the color of the farm.
I have Content Patcher and all of that. I direct download mods rather than through Nexus.
I tried googling but couldn’t find anything that seemed to fit. I looks up photos of wilderness farms using the seasonal buildings. Most were the default color but there where a couple with a custom farmhouse color. 🤔
Anyone happen to have the same issue? Of a fix? It’s not a huge deal but I’m perplexed. ❤️
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2021.10.23 17:43 Ashjrethul My mum is sick of my shit lol
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2021.10.23 17:43 maxvideo127 ¡LA 4T TAMBIÉN CONTRATA EMPRESAS FANTASMA! Conoce el ESCÁNDALO de CORRUPCIÓN que involucra a la 4T
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2021.10.23 17:43 SkodaVRS- 5:54 St. Anger (5 Legendary Snare Sounds | Recreating Iconic Drum Sounds)
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2021.10.23 17:43 memphlee DAILY GIFT SENDER LOOKING FOR EQUALLY NEUROTIC DAILY GIFT OPENERS!! 5478 1125 1923
2021.10.23 17:43 PuzzledCommission681 join us and I am going on a lot more of a lot more of
2021.10.23 17:43 MonkeySnailZen Hunter that has all currently available armor! (Idk if you can still get verdigris though)
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2021.10.23 17:43 ElPvt0Amo12 Parceros estoy buscando regueton drumkit vol 1 y 2 de bbk (Boobassking), tengo muchas cosas chimba, mandenme privado quien este interesado en cambiar.
2021.10.23 17:43 ExtraNefariousness Can't find any jobs FM2021 TOUCH
I resigned from PSV because I wanted to change things up a bit. Now I can't find any jobs and would only show jobs in the Netherlands and international. Did I do something wrong when I set the game up?
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2021.10.23 17:43 tiiiiired [English > French] how to say i will treat you how you treat me?
Could anyone please give me a phrase to describe this situation? A person is putting a lot of effort into a relationship/friendship, but the other person does the bare minimum. Something along the lines of “i’ll treat you how you treat me”?
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2021.10.23 17:43 FrontpageWatch2020 [#65|+3641|224] That’s not your friend [r/iamatotalpieceofshit]